New Vistas of Consciousness

Faerie Sex Magick Workshop

About the Workshop

A 7-day workshop by faeries for faeries that uses heart circle to create the safety that comes from vulnerability

FAQs

You probably have a lot of questions. We hope we answered them all here in the Frequently Asked Questions page

About Heart Circle

We sit in a circle and pass a talisman, speaking and listening from the heart in confidentiality.

2026 Workshops

June 11-18 (169) Wolf Creek, Oregon
October 17-24 (169) Terra Rosa, Catalonia, Spain
Other workshops to be announced

Register

The process starts here. Register for the workshop and a facilitator will reach out to schedule a video conversation, a gatekeeping call.

Payment/Donation

Once you are through the gate, make your payment for the workshop here. You can also make a donation for someone else to attend.

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Faerie Sex Magick Workshop Introduction

Faerie Sex Magick is a week-long workshop designed to create a ritual container in which participants examine their intimate lives to release anything that blocks fulfilling connection and erotic life. This deep personal work is based on facilitated heart circles, supporting the participants’ ability to step into vulnerability and share sensitive emotions and intimate touch within a brave, communal space. This co-created space provides an opportunity for participants to grow beyond their past limiting experiences and allows new vistas of consciousness to be carried into their daily lives beyond the workshop.

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We will:

  • work on seeing each other in Subject-SUBJECT consciousness
  • explore how intimacy, sex, and community relate
  • experience and work through patterns and habits that block our intimacy
  • open a space for sexuality and spirituality
  • find deeper levels of intimacy and sharing
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Harry Hay in 1999 on the workshop:

We face many barriers in working to realize our vision. AIDS, sexual addiction, objectification, ageism, looks-ism, internalized heterosexism, unrealistic expectations. These issues look large as we begin this crucial next step in manifesting our collective faerie vision – the ritual realization of subject-SUBJECT consciousness that is the basis of Radical Faerie reality.

We achieve our vision by collectively creating – as the core our Workshop, (and for the duration only) – a Ritual Space within which safe and sacred precinct we freely empower ourselves, and each other, to set aside our boundaries in order to experience the same total loving sharing with another as we do in loving ourselves.

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Consider these questions . . .

  • How can I extend the limits of intimacy with my community?
  • Does sex constrain or expand my relationships with men?
  • How can I better integrate sexual play and my desires into my intimate relationships?
  • Does recreational sex diminish my capacity for intimacy in a committed relationship?
  • How does the prevailing society’s prudishness dampen and undermine the intimacy in my relationships?
  • How does my sexuality and my spirituality inter-relate?
  • Are my sexual and my spiritual aspects one in the same?

If any of these issues resonate with you, join us for a concentrated exploration and testing of the waters of deeper intimacy, Sex Magick, and spirit/sex integration. Based on the successful and provocative workshops developed by Harry Hay, this 7-day retreat is designed to challenge and take down the habits and patterns keeping us from achieving levels of intimacy not previously found.

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  • “Among the many powerful bonds and insights we forged at Sex Magick, the most lasting, for me, has been this: the realization that some spiritual work cannot be done one-on-one; that some growth can only arise in community, through mutual witnessing, exploration, and support—as a collective. I’m a huge advocate of Sex Magick, not only for those who participate but for their wider communities. Its healing powers go beyond the immediate circle, by design.”
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  • “I am a past recipient of 2 Sex Magick workshops and I count that experience as one of the hallmarks in my life that defines me.
    It was a very powerful and extremely valuable addition to what makes me the kind of human being I am.”
  • “I discovered that Sex Magick really worked for me.  (At my next gathering) my dance card was full, having 2 or 3 beautiful encounters a day for 5 days.”
  • “By the end, I felt such a sense of connection and belonging that transcended the lonely, rejected and scared boy on the kindergarten playground.”