Sex Magick:
Transcending the Boundaries of Intimacy



The registration process.

This is the place to be if you are ready to register. If you are not sure or need more information, please go to our About Sex Magick page and read more or contact us for more information.


Robin Hood

Rosie D.



Pansy Wyldfire




Yellowstone National Treasure


Well 2021 is finally here.  We're still in the process of getting through the pandemic.  AND we are eager to resume the workshops - safely.

At this time, we have only one workshop scheduled.  As the situations change around the world, we'll be updating the schedule and, hopefully, announce additional workshops in North America, Europe and Australia/New Zealand.

To those looking forward to the Full Spectrum workshop, we are very committed to seeing that happen as soon as this summer or in the fall.  More on that as information is learned.

Workshops are open to all Faggot and Bi identified men (regardless of sex assigned at birth). Full Spectrum workshops, open to all our fabulous queer community, are also happening now.

Each workshop will be seven days long starting on Saturday and ending the following Saturday unless otherwise noted. The dates and locations are as follows:

10 - 17 July, France (169)

Please select your preferred workshop in the registration form below.



Participants are expected to commit to all 7 days of the workshop. Please don't plan on arriving late or leaving early.

After you register below, you will be contacted by one of the three facilitators for the workshop selected.  We would like an opportunity to discuss the workshop intentions in greater detail and do everything possible to ensure this experience is the best possible for all of us. Doing a bit of pre-processing will help make this workshop the wondrous event it will be.

To that end the following questions are designed to provoke some thought and discussion about the theme of this workshop. We also hope to have some momentum built up before the start of the workshop to help the process move forward.

  • What are your personal barriers to intimacy? Family issues? Previous hurts?
  • What works best for you in overcoming those barriers?
  • What patterns in intimate relationships would you like to change, shift or keep?
  • How do your values impact your relationships?
  • How do you quench your hunger for love?
  • How do others perceive you? Approachable? Desirable? Stately? Intimidating?
  • How do you usually respond when the needs of a group are in conflict with your individual needs?
  • What comes up for you when exploring sexual touch in a group setting?   Is there anything, such as past sexual abuse, that would impact your participation in sexual touch experiences?
  • This is a substance free workshop. Will that be okay for you to not use alcohol, marijuana or drugs during our time together and in the time leading up to the workshop?
  • What about the workshop excites you? Raises your anxiety?
  In order to participate we ask you to register using the form below.  One of the facilitators for the workshop you selected will contact you for an informational discussion by phone or video chat.  We welcome your questions and discussion of any possible concerns you might have.  You can contact a facilitator from the list at the right or email us at  

The cost is $550-850US, $650-1000CAD, $800-1,250AU/NZ$,  £215-680 and €250-800 depending on the site (see form below for specifics). Price includes 7 days meals and accommodation, depending on the site.  Tent camping is common.  There may be some indoor spaces for those with special needs or for colder weather workshops. Please contact us for more information.


Please do not send payment at this time. We'll ask for it after we have confirmed your attendance. Confirmation takes place about a week or so after your call with one of the Facilitators.  We would prefer if you could pay in full at that time, but, at a minimum, we ask for 50% down, no later than 30 days in advance of the workshop. Because cancellations are so challenging if they happen close to the workshop, an advance payment helps us to gauge attendance. If you decide after that time to cancel and we have already paid rental fees, food expenses and/or travel expenses for people helping with the workshop, then we may not be able to give you a refund – unless we are able to fill your spot. 

Finally, we ask for the balance of your payment no later than 14 days prior to the beginning of the workshop. 


Pre-registration Information - (Registration for 30th Anniversary COLC gathering has moved here.)

Faerie Name:  
City:   State/Province: Zip/Postal Code:
Phone,  primary:   Phone, other
Workshop preference: Folleterre Sanctuary, France (169) - 10-17 July
I will be paying in full at least 2 weeks before the workshop commences.
US & Canada Workshops $550 - 950 USD or $650 - 1,075 CAD
European Union Workshops €250 - 800
England Workshops £215 - 680
Australia/NZ Workshops $800 - 1,250 AUD or NZD
Fee range is wide to encourage contributions to enable Faeries with fewer resources to make it!
I can't pay the full fee and want to be there. I can afford to pay:
Accessibility needs and/or questions:  
Other info or questions:  
Consent:   I agree to receive very occasional communications regarding future workshops and/or gatherings specifically related to Sex Magick
I do not want to receive any communications not related to my participation in this specific workshop.
    (if we don't include the captcha thing below, we get inundated with robot registrations.)

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